“But I Poop Every Day!” — Why You Can Still Be Constipated

If I had a dollar for every patient who said, “I can’t be constipated, I poop every day,” I’d have a very well-funded research lab by now. And, sadly, I don’t.

Here’s the uncomfortable truth: daily pooping does not automatically mean healthy pooping. Constipation is about how you poop, not just how often you go. My goal for my patients is one soft, formed, bowel movement daily. Normal BM frequency is 1-3 bowel movements every 1-3 days.

Welcome to Constipation Nation, where we normalize talking about stool quality…and frequency.

Constipation Is a Symptom Pattern — Not a Calendar Problem

Medical constipation isn’t defined by missing days. It’s defined by what your bowel movements feel like and how your body empties, and how you feel afterwards.

You can poop daily and still be constipated if you have:

  • Hard or pellet-like stools

  • Straining or pushing

  • A feeling of incomplete emptying

  • Needing to “go again” shortly after

  • Rectal pressure, pain, or hemorrhoids

  • Reliance on laxatives, suppositories, or coffee to “kickstart” things

If any of that sounds familiar, congratulations—you’re pooping, but not effectively.

The “Incomplete Evacuation” Trap

One of the most common patterns I see is partial emptying, also called incomplete evacuation. Think of your rectum like a toothpaste tube:

  • If you only squeeze the bottom of the tube, there’s still toothpaste left inside.

  • The body senses leftover stool and keeps signaling urgency.

  • You end up pooping again later… and again… and again.

This is a classic symptom in:

  • Pelvic floor dysfunction

  • Dyssynergic defecation, also called obstructed defecation

  • Chronic straining habits

  • People who hover, rush, or ignore the urge

You may be pooping daily, but never fully.

Stool Consistency Matters More Than Frequency

A daily bowel movement that looks (and feels!) like:

  • Pebbles

  • Cracked logs

  • Dry, bulky stool

…still counts as constipation.

Why? Because hard stool moves slowly, is dehydrated further in the colon, and stretches the anus and rectum over time—leading to:

  • Reduced sensation

  • More straining

  • Hemorrhoids and fissures

  • “I didn’t even know I was backed up”

(Oh yes, that’s a real thing.)

The Colon Can Be Slow Even If You Go Every Day

Your colon might be sluggish overall, but still managing to push some stool out daily.

This happens in:

  • Slow-transit constipation

  • Low fiber or low fluid intake

  • Magnesium or stimulant laxative dependence

  • GLP-1 medications

  • Hypothyroidism or neurologic conditions

Daily output doesn’t mean normal transit time (even though most of the time, daily output is a fairly good sign)

The Rectum Can Be the Real Problem

I usually explain that constipation can be due to gut… or butt. Sometimes the colon is doing its job perfectly—the rectum is not.

Common culprits:

  • Tight or non-relaxing pelvic floor muscles

  • Prior childbirth injury or neurological injury

  • Chronic holding or “just in case” pooping

  • Pain-avoidance after fissures or hemorrhoids

This leads to:

  • Straining despite soft stool

  • Long bathroom time

  • Multiple small bowel movements per day

That’s still constipation.

The Bristol Stool Chart Doesn’t Lie

If your stool is usually:

  • Type 1 or 2 → constipated

  • Type 3 with straining → functionally constipated

  • Type 4 without strain → gold standard

Frequency without form is meaningless.

Why This Matters (Beyond Being Annoying)

Chronic “hidden”, or unrecognized, constipation can lead to to:

  • Hemorrhoids

  • Anal fissures

  • Pelvic floor dysfunction

  • Bloating

  • Urinary symptoms

  • Rectal prolapse

  • Feeling uncomfortable in your own body

And most people normalize it for years.

The Bottom Line

Pooping daily does not equal pooping well.

If you:

  • Strain

  • Feel incomplete

  • Rely on tricks

  • Or don’t feel relief afterward

…your gut is asking for help.

The goal isn’t more poop—it’s better, easier, complete poop.

Your body knows the difference.

And now, so do you.

DR. CARMEN FONG
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